Divorce or separation is often difficult for children, especially during holidays. Changes in traditions and overall family structure are particularly evident and can be emotionally overwhelming for immature minds already trying to process so many things. Therefore, separated parents need to focus on positive experiences during the holidays.
Typically most divorced families split holidays and vacation time between parents or agree to alternating years or holidays. Still, there are plenty of other options for ensuring your family gets through the holidays with less stress.
- If geography isn’t an issue, consider a schedule where children spend Christmas Eve with one parent and Christmas Day with the other. You will need to agree on a timeframe that defines this schedule, but the benefit is there is no rotating requirement with this type of schedule, and both children and parents still get to spend time together for the holidays.
- Try to spend some holiday time together. This option may not be practical for all divorced couples, but if you and your ex are on amicable terms, spending even a few hours together as a complete family unit can provide a sense of familiarity and relieve some stress for your children. Obviously, this is not a good option for co-parents who can’t get along. If this situation is likely to cause arguments or other disruptive behavior, it should be avoided as it is likely to have the opposite desired effect.
- Communicate any travel plans with as much advanced notice as possible. This will give everyone time to discuss and make arrangements for the holiday schedule. If you are a parent who will be without the children, it may give you time to plan some special pre-holiday activities so that you can enjoy holiday time with your children. If children will be away, try and include phone calls or zoom/skype calls with the absent parent on Christmas Eve and Christmas Day.
- In cases where the distance between parents is a factor, it may be more practical to consider splitting or alternating entire Christmas breaks so that each parent gets to spend an extended period of time with their children during the holidays.
Divorce can make navigating the holidays difficult and stressful, especially for children; discussing these scenarios and establishing a holiday custody schedule that works for both parties is essential.
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